The first and only time I'll ever wear a white formal gown! Charity Ball, 2004. Image obscured protect the innocent.
I have a secret that I will shamefully let you lovely folks in on.. I really genuinely enjoy watching Say Yes to The Dress. I love looking at all of the dresses and seeing what kinds of dresses the ladies gravitate towards. Partially, because I've never really been into the whole big white dress thing. It just doesn't suit my tastes, plus I am always spilling stuff on myself.
From what I can tell from my research, most brides spend between $800 and $1,500 on their dress alone. As outrageous as that sounds to me, I can understand how that happens. In 2004 I was asked to participate in the big charity ball in my hometown as a debutant. Part of being a debutant was wearing a white gown, usually a wedding gown that had been altered to fit the requirements outlined by the committee. I remember shopping for a gown with my grandma and many of the price tags at the bridal boutique being well over $1,000. We found the perfect dress for me, wrote down the style number and went home to hunt for the dress online. In store the Mon Cherie gown was priced around $1,100. I can't remember the exact price, but I know it was in that range. We found it online for just $500 and I believe that we also used a coupon code for an additional percentage off of the price.
I'm wearing two black gowns for my upcoming nuptials and paid well under $300 combined for both of them. I did wear a white wedding dress back in 2004 when I was a debutant (ha!) for the Charity Ball in the city that I grew up in, but I wasn't into it then either. I guess what I'm say here is that I have experience shopping for a white wedding gown and I have experience shopping for a more nontraditional wedding gown on a tight budget and thought I'd share a few tips on how to find the best price on your gown for the big day whether you're wanting to wear a traditional white gown or going for something a bit more nontraditional.
Tip 1: Schedule a visit a large bridal boutique in your town. Look at as many dresses as possible and try on different styles to see which suits you best. Once you find a gown that you want to purchase write down the designer, style number, sizing information and whatever else will be useful in searching for it online. Go home and google the designer and style number. You may find it at an online bridal boutique for a large discount.
85% off?! Yes, please!
Tip 2: Alternately, once you have visited a bridal boutique and found a dress, visit online wedding dress resale websites and purchase your dress second hand for 25 to 50% off or more depending on the designer! You will more than likely have to have it altered to fit your figure properly, but you would have to do that with a new dress as well. Don't forget to check Craigslist and the classified sections on various wedding boards online!
Online Wedding Dress Resale Sites:
www.preownedweddingdresses.com
www.woreitonce.com
www.oncewed.com
Alfred Angelo Bridesmaid Dress in White - Style #7205 - $189.00
Tip 3: If you're not looking for a dress with a large train, lots of fancy bead work, or all of the extra details that many wedding gowns have consider shopping in the bridesmaids section. This is also a great tip if you're looking for a dress in a color other than white. Many of these dresses come in tons of colors and cost considerably less than a wedding gown would. Don't forget to look online for the style number to see if you can find the dress for a better price online than in store as well! Plus, these dresses can very easily be spiced up by having a talented seamstress add some bead work or fabric flowers or a ribbon belt.
Tip 4: Have your dress custom made by a local seamstress or someone on Etsy. As I mentioned above, I have two wedding dresses for my big day. One dress is custom made by a woman who I found on Etsy that is local to me. I paid $100 for a vintage reproduction dress custom made to fit my body in colors and fabric of my choosing. My dress is very basic, but I have seen more ornate and detailed gowns on Etsy for very fair prices, plus you're supporting an independent business person which is always a plus!
Tip 5: Rent your dress! Call and ask around and find out if there is anywhere local that rents out formal dresses and wedding dresses. I was unable to find one in my area, however I found tons online for other areas so they are out there!
Jessica London Linen Dress with Eyelet Detail - On Sale for $59.99! I love this for a backyard wedding.
Tip 6: Buy an off the rack dress. If you're not having a huge formal affair and want a more casual dress there are tons of off the rack dresses that would work for a wedding dress with the right shoes, accessories, and headpiece that you can purchase for well under $100! This is a great option if you're having a backyard wedding or beach wedding.
How are you saving money for your big day? Any dress hunting tips that you have found helpful that you would like to share?
Note: I've included white dresses, since I know that many/most girls prefer the traditional white wedding gown. I will absolutely do more at a later date and include different colors.